I have learned a lot about dating in the year I have been single; especially dating online. I have found it interesting how many white women, after a divorce consider dating out of their race. Many have messaged me and asked if I dated white women. I usually laugh or give them a hard time before I answer. But it’s also interesting how many say they always wanted to but never did. This intrigues me since I have dated whom ever I chose my whole life and wonder what makes one wait until they are in their 40’s to do what they have always wanted to do. And why couldn’t you do it in your 30’s or 20’s? Did they not have the personal courage to date outside their race?
I assume they fell to the pressure of the society they found themselves growing up in. My father was military. So many of my friends were mixed and the culture I was in, interracial marriages were very common, mainly German women and black men. Most of the responses I have gotten from women I have met were what I felt were typical. I lived in a small town and there were none.
I’ve always been attracted to black men but didn’t act on it or my father would have killed me. So now you’re older and feel you’re ready to date whom ever you choose. Many of these women have a lot going for them and some don’t. But all seem to be at a place where they are sexually free and enjoy their new found sexual prowess. It’s nice at this age because the games don’t seem to be present and there is more straight forward talk.
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