So after getting our food to go from Jack in the Box, we went back to the Stray’s house.   Everyone ate while watching TV.  The Stray suggested that AD33 and I spend the night in the guest room.  That way we could have breakfast in the morning and hang out.  I was open to the idea, but I knew that there would be a problem sometime during the night.  So I decided to just relax while I make decide what my next move will be.

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It has been a while since I’ve written anything on here.  If you’ve read the site over the years, you probably know why.  But if you don’t know, take a few minutes and read my a few pages back.  Going forward, I’m probably going to make some mad.  I’m probably going to offend some of you.  And I’m sure I’ll make some of you laugh.  And somewhere along the way, you will realize, I haven’t changed.

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Facebook Etiquette & Jerri Harlen

by Eathan March 19, 2012

Since the creation of Facebook, Twitter and other social media sites,  people have been hiding behind a keyboard or mobile device to create havoc.  There are more and more articles about racist comments about President Obama on twitter.  If you follow any sort of celebrity online, you will find the comments on their Facebook status [...]

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Attorney Lance Turnbow – San Marcos Texas

by Eathan March 16, 2012

I am always leery of “professionals” with Hotmail business email addresses – Brian Cuban.  I have to agree with that statement also.  It came to my attention recently that content I wrote for one of my SEO clients was being duplicated on another lawyers website.  It was flattering, but also a problem for my clients. [...]

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The Latest For Swirl Networking & Dating

by Eathan June 15, 2011

Until recently, online dating has never catered to the Swirl & interracial community.  Over the years, I’ve discussed with several interracial daters that a well designed interracial dating site would flourish.  Most of us waste our time using the popular dating sites such as Match, Chemistry, or even Plenty of Fish.  But a few days [...]

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More Drinks In Lakewood (part 2)

by Eathan April 15, 2011

As I mentioned previously, I was in Lakewood/East Dallas having drinks.  The evening with AD33 and the Stray was developing quickly.  Shortly after she declared that she wasn’t in love with her estranged husband, she and AD33 started discussing their relationship needs.  It still seemed strange that she would marry him because he would make [...]

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Drinks In Lakewood

by Eathan April 12, 2011

A few weeks ago, I decided to go out to go out with AD33.  We decided to go to South Dallas.  The plan was to have pizza, a few beverages and then finish off the night with some swirl loving.  Everything started out smooth.  AD33 & I enjoyed a few laughs at the pizza bar. [...]

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Truth or Lie

by JYD February 11, 2011

The other day Iswirl posted a very interesting question: “Believing in Marriage is like believing in Santa Clause”…truth or lie? That question is sure to make some laugh and some a lil peeved. Since I like to color outside the lines I thought why not tackle that question and look at it. Seeing how I [...]

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A Conversation with a Interracial Serial Dater

by JYD February 9, 2011

If you have spent anytime on I Date White or ISwirl I’m sure you have come to know just who Eathan is and what he’s about. If you don’t know, in a snap shot Eathan is a single Dad of two boys who enjoys the company of a woman. Whether it’s chatting on line or [...]

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How Do I?

by JYD February 4, 2011

On another site, a female, Jae wrote in asking the question…How do I get men outside my race to commit to me. If you’re thinking what I was when I saw the title, I was like ok, what’s this really about. Well a young woman, who is mixed (black and white) doesn’t wish to date [...]

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Dating the Bad Boy

by JYD February 1, 2011

I have noticed an interesting phenomenon that seemingly hasn’t really changed over the years and has me wondering, what makes white women who swirl so attracted to the bad boy brothers? I think when you are in your teens or early twenty’s it’s typical to see this trend but I’m surprised by the alarming number [...]

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Top 5 Hook Up Sites

by Eathan December 3, 2010

Every year the holiday season creates the desire to have friends and family around.  But for those who are single it can be a tough time to find someone new.  It doesn’t matter if you’re looking for a date or just a casual hook up.  If you’re over whelmed by all of the social and [...]

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Do You Still Believe, A Christmas Tale

by JYD December 2, 2010

Time…it seems so still and I have no idea how long I have been sleeping nor do I hear any noises so…I wonder if he’s gone yet. Or better yet, has he even come? Man this is killing me. I don’t have a clock so I don’t know what time it is and as I [...]

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What’s Wrong With Dating Up?

by LB November 30, 2010

Over the years as I meet people, I have been on dates.  I have turned down dates and I have realized what it is that I want in life.  I have always wanted someone who is a best friend, someone that I can connect with, who I relate to and we understand each other.  I [...]

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