Until recently, online dating has never catered to the Swirl & interracial community.  Over the years, I’ve discussed with several interracial daters that a well designed interracial dating site would flourish.  Most of us waste our time using the popular dating sites such as Match, Chemistry, or even Plenty of Fish.  But a few days ago a new dating site was launched, SwirlUs!  I was one of a few select people who had the opportunity use the site for a few days.  And I have to admit… I love it!

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As I mentioned previously, I was in Lakewood/East Dallas having drinks.  The evening with AD33 and the Stray was developing quickly.  Shortly after she declared that she wasn’t in love with her estranged husband, she and AD33 started discussing their relationship needs.  It still seemed strange that she would marry him because he would make a good father.  It was during this part of the conversation that I tuned them out and focused my attention on everyone around the bar.  But the parts that I heard was typical girl talk.

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Drinks In Lakewood

by Eathan April 12, 2011

A few weeks ago, I decided to go out to go out with AD33.  We decided to go to South Dallas.  The plan was to have pizza, a few beverages and then finish off the night with some swirl loving.  Everything started out smooth.  AD33 & I enjoyed a few laughs at the pizza bar. [...]

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Truth or Lie

by JYD February 11, 2011

The other day Iswirl posted a very interesting question: “Believing in Marriage is like believing in Santa Clause”…truth or lie? That question is sure to make some laugh and some a lil peeved. Since I like to color outside the lines I thought why not tackle that question and look at it. Seeing how I [...]

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A Conversation with a Interracial Serial Dater

by JYD February 9, 2011

If you have spent anytime on I Date White or ISwirl I’m sure you have come to know just who Eathan is and what he’s about. If you don’t know, in a snap shot Eathan is a single Dad of two boys who enjoys the company of a woman. Whether it’s chatting on line or [...]

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How Do I?

by JYD February 4, 2011

On another site, a female, Jae wrote in asking the question…How do I get men outside my race to commit to me. If you’re thinking what I was when I saw the title, I was like ok, what’s this really about. Well a young woman, who is mixed (black and white) doesn’t wish to date [...]

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Dating the Bad Boy

by JYD February 1, 2011

I have noticed an interesting phenomenon that seemingly hasn’t really changed over the years and has me wondering, what makes white women who swirl so attracted to the bad boy brothers? I think when you are in your teens or early twenty’s it’s typical to see this trend but I’m surprised by the alarming number [...]

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Top 5 Hook Up Sites

by Eathan December 3, 2010

Every year the holiday season creates the desire to have friends and family around.  But for those who are single it can be a tough time to find someone new.  It doesn’t matter if you’re looking for a date or just a casual hook up.  If you’re over whelmed by all of the social and [...]

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Do You Still Believe, A Christmas Tale

by JYD December 2, 2010

Time…it seems so still and I have no idea how long I have been sleeping nor do I hear any noises so…I wonder if he’s gone yet. Or better yet, has he even come? Man this is killing me. I don’t have a clock so I don’t know what time it is and as I [...]

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What’s Wrong With Dating Up?

by LB November 30, 2010

Over the years as I meet people, I have been on dates.  I have turned down dates and I have realized what it is that I want in life.  I have always wanted someone who is a best friend, someone that I can connect with, who I relate to and we understand each other.  I [...]

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Top 5 Insatiable Women’s Perfumes

by Jenni November 22, 2010

I thought it was only fitting to write an article about a couple of perfumes that women love and men seem to be drawn to.  And of course it is just in time for the holiday season!  Perfumes always make a great gift if you can’t think of anything creative. Just make sure to try [...]

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What Is Magic Poon?

by Eathan November 19, 2010

Since I’m revealing a few secrets this week, I decided to explain another mystery.  One of my frequent asked questions about dating/sex after divorce is, what is Magic Poon? The term Magic Poon needs no explanation or introduction.  It’s known to people at all social levels.  Magic Poon crosses racial barriers by leaps and bounds.  Magic [...]

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What Is The Problem with Air Travel

by JYD November 18, 2010

Air travel safety has been one of the top stories in the headlines for a few weeks now with these new body scanners that have been implemented in some of the airports across the country. There is a huge out cry of invasion of one’s person being echoed across TV and the radio. Some cat [...]

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4 Insatiable Men’s Colognes

by Eathan November 17, 2010

Recently, one of my friends was in the early stages of breaking up with her boyfriend.  After spending the night at his home, she mentioned that she could still smell him on her pillow case and blanket.  I’ve always been a big fan of wearing a cologne that women will distinguish me from other guys [...]

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